only basic testing was done (with 2 socks5 proxies listening on ::1)
but seems to work as intended.
ipv6 support for the hostsreader (/etc/hosts) is not implemented so far.
instead of allocating memory in the child, we now use the allocator
thread to do all the necessary allocations himself.
additionally we provide a clean API to query the ip <-> dns mapping.
these functions connect via a pipe to the allocator thread, and
exchange messages.
further cleanup is needed, but it seems to work so far.
thread-safety is not yet guaranteed.
closes#1